It’s October 22nd, 2018. I know. Another. Fucking. Blogger. Get OUT! No one wants to read your blog, Nancy! I feel like such a loser already and… That’s the problem. The point, really. I’m literally starting my first fucking bl...

Well, I’ve already been asked out. 4 days in. I was expecting like maybe 8 months in, and that’s it, this whole time. This one was a weird one because it was in a private message on a Meetup group with no previous conversation ...

I may be a skeptic, but I LOVE to have my tarot cards read. I feel like tarot has been really trending in the last few years, at least that I've started to notice, although I honestly think it's always been cool, since...

This is going to be a long one, but it’s full of tea, so take a sip! My friend C got a message yesterday from a guy I was seeing on and off from December 2017 to end of March 2018. Not a long time, but a long enough time to fuc...

I’m crushing this year’s new goals already. I have worn my hair curly for 4 days in a row, having grabbed some free samps from Sephora. It is a MESS. I have gotten compliments on it but it’s like.. No guys. Stop.

Gonna be honest here, not dating anyone is pretty uneventful. I kinda just go home, watch Netflix or Youtube and crochet. That or hang out with some girlfriends and grab some drinks or a movie. Nothing fancy. And I’m happy to ...

Feeling shit tonight. I haven't had any social interaction today and it's a night like this where I would normally turn to a dating app for validation. I tried to talk to my friends instead, in two of my group chats, but no on...

November 15th is the day I am selling my amigurumi crochets for the first time ever! A co-worker let me know that there was an event for agency people to come and sell their side hustle projects at a market and since everyone i...

So I’ll spilled some tea on two juicy stories of about exes in Day 10 and Day 12… I might as well pour you a pot on my absolute WORST ex. This is the one that fucked me up the most. This is the one that I will never reach out t...

This is Part 2 to my Day 28 blog all about D, my worst ever ex. Part 2 begins about a year and a half after I stopped talking to D. I saw him around all the time, in particular, at the mall I worked at. He was working security ...

My work just had a Christmas party and it was suuuper fun. I’m not going to go into detail about it because honestly, there aren’t any super memorable stories that would excite anyone, but there was ONE thing that happened that...

I am probably going to make this one short, but just wanted to get something quick in. Nothing crazy new has happened recently, but I do have this coworker, who I might add is one of the most lovely, sweet women I have ever met...

I got invited to a third speed dating event with this company because I failed to find anyone at the first two events. The first one literally had 5 guys there, only one who seemed within my standard age range, an...

I did another thing on my fuck it list challenge. I went to a movie by myself. Now I know this doesn't sound like a big deal, and it shouldn't be, but most people don't really do this because they can't enjoy doing things by th...

Christmas is almost here. Christmas was always a time of year where being single always felt the worst. This time, it doesn’t, because of the deliberateness of not giving a shit. Last year, I went on the cutest winter dates. I ...

I was able to convince my mom to get me the 23 and me kit for Christmas while it was on sale for Black Friday, so saved around $90 and I’m thinking for Christmas, I’ll pay her back and then some. I did an adult thing and actua...

So I have been creeping my own Youtube channels, I have 3 of them. One is my ASMR channel which has nearing 4k subscribers. I have my video gaming channel where I upload myself playing games, and then I have my oldest youtube ...

Going to knock off another thing from my fuck-it list. Going to zoo lights tonight! I’m going with a friend and her mom. I haven’t met her mom yet so we’ll see how it goes. I don’t know why it meant so much to me to finally go ...

I need to discuss something that is probably really stupid, but I wanted to get it out. What else is a blog for but vomiting out your more obscure thoughts, anyway? RIGHT?! Okay. SO! I was at a local rock show with my friend C ...

So I want to update the blog because I’ve been super busy but I don’t want to neglect this thing cause I do really enjoy adding to it and keeping up with this whole challenge. I really do love having a blog and don’t want to lo...

I think it’s time to reminisce about another ex-man. There’s only like 3 significant men in my life left to talk shit about. I knocked the other few out pretty fast. The last 3 are the ones that are most difficult for me to re...

Alright this is part 2 to the last blog. Please read that one first or you will be very confused. 2 years later, A messages me. He was finally ready to respond. Here’s a summation of what it said:...

It’s day 100! I made it! 100 days of being single and not looking. Or maybe, not seeking. It’s impossible not to look. I haven’t broken a single one of my rules yet. It really wasn’t that hard. It’s not like anyone is actually ...

I have baked my first ever batch of edibles from home, all on my own. I used Purple Haze which is a hybrid-sativa dominant and made chocolate chip cookies. The whole process of m...

So I have a confession to make, and based on the fact that I’ve talked shit about this when dudes do it, I’m considering giving it a try… Zombieing. After reminiscing about this really cool guy I went on a couple dates with ove...

So after my last blog, I realized, I don’t even remember the dude’s last name or how I could possibly message him because I unfollowed his Instagram a long time ago and can’t find it. So I tried to hunt down any of his social m...

So, update on the message I wrote to the hot bearded guy... I had B send it for me on the 13th before Valentine’s day through Facebook because I couldn’t bring myself to hit send. She sent it and I freaked for a full 24 hours...

I have a lot of things to talk about in this blog, but let’s start with Valentine’s Day. I went with my friend B to this shitty bar for a stoplight party. You’re supposed to wear green if you’re single, yellow if you’re a maybe...

Ahoy! I’m back at it again with the blog thing. I’m going through a weird time right now. I’ve had some mood swings from reeeally happy to extremely pissed off, to extremely turned on to feeling empty inside. I’ve gone from fee...

I burst into angry tears today. Someone drove me out of my lane and then slammed their brakes in front of me, after I honked at them. I screamed so loudly in anger and hatred that I started violently crying. That’s n...

I went to another munch, this time, surrounding the theme of rope play. There was no actual rope play happening, just people with a mutual interest meeting up and getting to know each other. I went with a guy friend who is high...

Sooo… Rules have been broken, and I’m happy about it, damn it! I broke the no sex/no kissing rules, which, since they’re self-imposed rules, I’m not gonna punish myself. I mean, it’s old me versus current me bei...

I went to a rope play night, aaand… Not sure it’s for me. I didn’t really feel anything. Neither excitement, nor stress. Just, nothing. I realize there are many ways to be a rope bunny, and I always thought it was mainly sexual...

Many things have happened lately so I’ll try to squeeze them all in. My old FWB, let’s just call him M visited over the weekend from my hometown to go hiking on Sunday, and he ended up coming up Saturday night. We went out for ...

I’ve not updated in a while! There’s been a lot of things but nothing overly interesting to share. I have been experiencing dating app cravings. Mostly because I convinced my friend to get Hinge and I helped her to make her pro...

A year ago today, on April Fool’s day, I had the worst day in a really long time. It was when I realized that J, the guy I’d spent the last two months falling in love with, wanted nothing to do with me anymore. And not in a w...

Alright so I’ve gotten a chance to blog on vacation. I broke a rule, however, I did it for science and not for love... I added tinder while in Mexico. It was for curiosity a...

It’s been a few days since I got back from Mexico. Back at work now and it’s weird but not necessarily in a bad way, just taking time settling back in mentally. I had a dream last night that I was in a beauty pageant against a...

Um so... My crush might have just asked me out. And I didn't say no. But I don't know if it's a real date. So like... I'm dying. #dead Challenge may have failed, but like... I'm happy about it. I'm in trouble.

So it wasn’t a date. The challenge is still going strong, you guys, don’t worry! I misinterpreted what could have been a date. One could assume going for dinner is a date...

Today is the 6th month mark... Yowza, a whole 6 months without an honest date. I feel like this is a good time to evaluate whether or not I want to continue. I think… I do. I want to...

The lady at H&R Block seemed shocked that, at 27, I was single, unmarried and had no kids yet. I had to tell her multiple times that yes, I am alone, all alone, and here I am, adulting up with my taxes that I can do...

My first busy weekend is down, and honestly? It wasn’t the best. I think I had such high hopes of having a fun weekend, but then fucked it up by drinking too much, particularly on the Friday night, for the award show...

I broke another rule… Fuck. I think I’ve broken all but one of my rules yet. So I joined a dating app. I don’t know why, but this huge huge part of me felt READY again. I’ve been obsessively listening to all these podcasts ab...

I switched from the two dating apps above to Hinge. I just feel like it gives you better quality, people who put a little more effort in, and it also gives you a finite number of “likes” a day, so you’re not swiping for a hundr...